When you hear that a friend of yours has lost a loved one, you want to help in any way you can. But what can you do? Many people feel helpless because they know there’s nothing they can say or do to remove the pain from the person they care about. But the professionals at funeral homes in Westphalia, MO want you to know that your letters and cards to those who are grieving can make a difference in reminding them they have a lot of people in their life who care about them greatly. Here are a few hints to crafting that letter.

Express Your Sympathy

The first thing you are likely going to want to say is that you are sorry for their loss. That might feel generic, but it’s sincere and it’s something they will understand and appreciate. Can it bring their loved one back? Of course not. But hearing it can make them feel your support.

Add That You Are Thinking Of Them

You can also tell your friend that you have been thinking of them and perhaps even praying for them. That’s another form of support that will help them to remember they have people standing behind them and attempting to hold them up during this hard time.

Offer Practical Forms Of Specific Help

It’s always nice to offer some kind of help if you feel there’s something you can do for your friend. If you live in the area, offer to deliver coffee to their house for the whole family before the final services. Bring some food to them for a meal or two as well. You can offer to fun errands, drive family members around, or do anything else you’d like that you feel might be helpful to them during a hard time.

Share A Short Memory, If Possible

If you knew the person who passed on, even if you didn’t know them very well, you might want to share a story or memory about them. If you knew them growing up, for example, and you remember they always told the best stories when you visited with your friend, say so. Even something short and sweet can mean a lot to your friend. It’s a nice way to remind them just how special their loved one was to others, not just to them.   

There are lots of things you can do to support someone who is working through grief after losing a loved one. The professionals at funeral homes in Westphalia, MO have plenty of suggestions for you and you can always give them a call and see what ideas they can offer. But they also suggest that you send a sympathy card or letter to share your condolences with your friend and their family. The professionals at Trimble Funeral Homes are here to help you figure out what to say in that letter if you are struggling. Give us a call any time and we are here to help you at any time.